tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post6601221739710019259..comments2023-10-31T07:06:06.832-04:00Comments on My Re-Visioned Life:: on whether pigs have wingsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02040674254150310726noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-79010319178159140642008-12-27T01:50:00.000-05:002008-12-27T01:50:00.000-05:00I also have been divorced about as long as I was m...I also have been divorced about as long as I was married - 18 years - & while my X is a kind person, he also struggles with life, depression, & a brilliance that I *wish* would shine more! Fortunatly, some of our best work was around our kids, & we can share genuinely pleasant times with them. Love that snow globe image - isn't that the way it is?<BR/><BR/>As you say, it's easier to be the one who left; I'm also glad I did, & celebrate your independence :)<BR/><BR/>BlessingsNadyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00730124015853971661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-50310192323022878942008-12-24T10:25:00.000-05:002008-12-24T10:25:00.000-05:00The ugliest rarely, if ever, look into their mirro...The ugliest rarely, if ever, look into their mirrors.<BR/><BR/>And ya know - to me this is a *paradox* for they are the ones who could gain the most, benefit so much, and mend their wounds by doing so.<BR/><BR/>Free will. Dig it.<BR/><BR/>:)rose AKA Walk in the Woods - she/herhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05697387190111527024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-80740625483733899332008-12-23T22:35:00.000-05:002008-12-23T22:35:00.000-05:00I am impressed with you for being able to get away...I am impressed with you for being able to get away from him and I am very impressed with your children for being able to see him for who it, try to deal with him on their terms, then let him go when he won't. That clarity and strength is a prize.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06095554727537194370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-81859957567899794072008-12-23T21:38:00.000-05:002008-12-23T21:38:00.000-05:00sadly my ex gave my kids all his BAD DNA...and the...sadly my ex gave my kids all his BAD DNA...and they got some of my bad DNA, but then again, they got some good DNA too. You throw it all up in the air, shake it around like a snow globe, and see what settles out. Mine are still settling, but then again, it took a good 40 something years for mine to settle so...... xxxxpPatti Gibbonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00917601813600917131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-68912437387100794492008-12-23T16:22:00.000-05:002008-12-23T16:22:00.000-05:00I don't know how you put up with it as long as you...I don't know how you put up with it as long as you did, but good for you for getting away!Aunt Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07925702578948250425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071936172666189545.post-91228012015128902282008-12-23T08:24:00.000-05:002008-12-23T08:24:00.000-05:00my father died still living with all of those demo...my father died still living with all of those demons. It never got better, and he never got it. Worse yet he was narcissitic and abusive. I believe he is still in complete turmoil in the afterlife.Dinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16444384822254291871noreply@blogger.com